Life Lessons

Reflections on change, resilience, love, loss and starting over, and the lessons learned along the way.

  • My Path to Pride and Fostering Pride in Others

    My Path to Pride and Fostering Pride in Others

     “Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride…

  • Ignorance and Courage Make Great Companions

    Ignorance and Courage Make Great Companions

    A good friend of mine commented on a Facebook post recently saying, “How courageous you must be!” It was a wonderful compliment…

  • Attenzione! Carry-On Baggage May Shift During Takeoff and Landing

    Attenzione! Carry-On Baggage May Shift During Takeoff and Landing

    I have spent a good portion of my life in motion; moving residences from one place to another, flying between my offices…

  • I’m Sorry, but I’m Not Sorry Anymore

    I’m Sorry, but I’m Not Sorry Anymore

    After a year of life interrupted and time to work on myself, I think I am out of apologies. I’m sorry, but…

  • Getting My House in Order

    Getting My House in Order

    “Our homes are not containers for stuff, but rather a place of joy and connection. Let’s make room for more of that.”…

  • Table for One, New Year’s Eve

    Table for One, New Year’s Eve

    I didn’t expect to write something tonight–I’ve delved way too deep into a bottle of Bordeaux. However, as I’m busy preparing my…

  • Oh God… We Need a Little Christmas Right Now

    Oh God… We Need a Little Christmas Right Now

    This year, more than ever, I’ve been living with my Christmas memories. I struggled with this title, but let’s be clear: “a…

  • At the End of the Day… We Are Who We Are

    At the End of the Day… We Are Who We Are

    Tomorrow America votes, and I keep coming back to one thought: we are who we are. After a late-afternoon walk (where the…

  • I Couldn’t Have Imagined This

    I Couldn’t Have Imagined This

    “Live out of your imagination, not your history.” Steven Covey Hello friends. I owe you an apology for being delayed with this…

  • Coming of Age: A Work in Progress

    Coming of Age: A Work in Progress

    “I am unwritten, can’t read my mind. I’m undefined I’m just beginning, the pen’s in my hand. Ending unplanned” Natasha Bedingfield –…

  • It’s OK to Feel Horrible

    It’s OK to Feel Horrible

    “Write a list of things that are going to get better, start with you.” Unknown Feeling Horrible and Powerless Am I the…

  • What’s Next?

    What’s Next?

    “Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.” Henry…

  • Find Peace in Submission

    Find Peace in Submission

    I believe we can find calmness in submission. Even amongst terror, there is beauty. If you can’t see it then create it…

  • Remember to Look Up!

    Remember to Look Up!

    Remember to look up.

  • I Believe It Has Been a Great Year

    I Believe It Has Been a Great Year

    “Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” Theodore Roosevelt My first post of 2019 started on an Air France flight traveling from…